Putting the message out there that men should be praised for doing the exact same things that a woman does in parenting communicates to them that they’re not as capable as parents. We’re telling them that it doesn’t come as naturally for them. And while that may be a crutch that some men have preferred to lean on, it’s simply not the case.
Contrary to popular belief, marriage isn’t about our happiness. It’s about making our spouses happy.